Pay attention to the problems you had growing up; you'll have the same ones over & over again as an adult.
But those same problems will have grown up too, both in size & complexity as you grow & your life becomes more complex.
The solutions, if you had any, guess what? Also have to grow & get more complex.
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Or ridiculously simple. If they're that, they're probably an escape, not a solution.
The
first thing you should've learned is which problems to escape instead
of trying to solve. If you didn't learn, or weren't able to do that,
then there's your primary problem for your lifetime.